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On Gardening: EverColor sedges equal ever-beautiful grassy texture

The EverColor series of sedges is growing and all are proving to be ideal component plants in mixed containers. They are so dynamic they have the ability to be standalone or monoculture plants in tall European urns, olive jars or modern containers like I have at my house. In the landscape, however, they offer not only color by that fine leaf texture that stands out in great contrast with shrubs, perennials or annuals.

Families

Parents @ Play: Celebrating National Puzzle Month

Did you know that January is National Puzzle Month – or that January 29 is National Puzzle Day? If not, don't feel bad: neither did we. But one thing we're quite sure of is that doing puzzles is a wonderful way to spend time with your family. Plus, it's good for you. Whether it's a 1,000-piece jigsaw, a crossword, a Sudoku, or something else, doing puzzles has been shown to increase alertness and concentration, improve memory and mood, boost problem-solving abilities and spatial reasoning, and lower stress levels. So in honor of National Puzzle Month, here are a few puzzle-icious ways to disconnect from our hyper-digital lifestyle, reconnect with your family, and generally improve your life.

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Commentary: Using neuroscience to prevent drug addiction among teenagers

One way to deter harmful recreational drug use by teenagers is to treat them like adults. Rather than simply tell them to "Just Say No" to alcohol, tobacco or illicit drugs, it may be more helpful to explain how these substances create unique risks for them – risks that arise due to the changing state of the adolescent brain.

Families

Ask Mr. Dad: The importance of roughhousing

Dear Mr. Dad: My husband and our boy-girl twins love to wrestle, but I'm worried that all that physical activity and getting revved up will make them – especially our son – see violence as acceptable. Should I be concerned?

Families

Program helps families help themselves

The Family Partnership has strengthened Twin Cities families for 140 years through therapeutic preschools, mental health counseling and anti human-trafficking programs. Now TFP is taking a dramatic step backward, so to speak. The nonprofit is the first in Minnesota to test a grant-funded program that sends coaches into at-risk households weekly for up to 18 months. The coaches are trained in a method called Mobility Mentoring. Instead of meticulously case-managing clients' stubborn issues, mentors step back and guide parents as they assess their own stability, set their own goals and, remarkably, often double their household income in the process. Senior Vice President John Everett Till tells us more.

Families

Ex-etiquette: Kids often wonder if mom and dad will get back together

Q: My boyfriend has a 10-year-old daughter who I am quite close to. He has made it very clear to her that we are together and that we love each other very much, but a few days ago while we were doing something in the kitchen, she made it very clear that she wants her parents to get back together. My boyfriend and his ex often spend time alone with their child – going to the movies, sometimes dinner. I'm wondering if this is confusing her? I have no idea how to approach this with him. What's good ex-etiquette?

Families

Living with Children: What should grandparents do when children won’t listen to good advice?

Q: We have ten grandchildren, spread between three of our kids. They all live within an hour's drive, so we see them often. We want to be involved in their lives and to be good influences. Our problem is with the parents. None of them are receptive to any advice or information we try to give or share. At least four of the grands have major behavior problems, for example (and all of them lack proper manners). It's obvious to us that the real problem is parents who don't know how to exercise effective authority, but any suggestions fall on deaf ears. One child has been diagnosed with an "oppositional" disorder. The parents have been told he can't help behaving the way he does, but he's no problem at all when he's with us, even for an extended stay. This is beginning to cause tension (and some conflict) among us. What should grandparents do when children won't listen to good advice?

Giant Pacific octopus is playful, feisty and smart

Fiona, a giant Pacific octopus, lives at Sea Life Aquarium at Concord (N.C.) Mills Mall. She likes to solve puzzles, paint and interact with her handlers.