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Submitted by Rationallady from Bellingham
Q: Do you think Bellinghamsters are more accepting of Muslims when dressed in western clothing? For example, if you wear western clothes like most Muslim men in America, but your wife or mother or sister wears a garment such as the hajeb that lets others know she is Muslim, are you treated differently when alone or with a Muslim-attired woman?
A: As a Muslim woman, I follow Gods commandment to dress modestly, which includes, amongst other things, wearing the hijab to cover my hair. I choose to dress in western clothing and the only thing that distinguishes me as a Muslim is the scarf I cover my head with. Additionally, my face, hands, and feet are the only things that are usually visible. I don't feel like I am treated any differently because of the hijab, but I am definitely more visible.
I was worried about the way people would treat me when I first moved to Bellingham I knew I would probably be the only Muslim to wear a head scarf. Yet I was pleasantly surprised at how welcoming and open minded people are. I have never once felt out of place or made to feel like I did not belong. I lived in Dallas before moving here and felt more out of place among a huge cosmopolitan community than I ever have here in Bellingham. I am proud of my faith and I try to represent it in the best possible way and hope they will see Islam for what it really is.
Iman Salam
Answered 01/06/09 11:30:18 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Jay from Bellingham, WA
Q: This is my first time reading this forum, thank you for answering so many questions. I hope that one day we will be able to view our differences as just that, differences. I have two very good friends who are very devout Muslim women, wives and moms. I am a Christian, we don't agree on a lot of things, especially religion. But what we have found is as women, we are so much alike. Yes I talk of Christ, they of Allah and we don't leave each other angry. There is so much living to do, and hopefully our lives speak for us, as to who we are. Again, thank you for answering questions about Muslim life.
A: Thank you for your note, Jay. It is the differences that make us unique and if we learn from them, grow as human beings. It says in the Qur'an: "O Mankind, We have made you into tribes and nations so that you may get to know one another..." In another verse in the Qur'an, Allah (God) says that different languages and skin color are a sign from Him.
thanx
Monem
Answered 11/24/08 11:29:09 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Dave from bellingham
Q: What's your take on Iran and its role with America's new colony, Iraq? Do you think Iran is eager to Nuke Israel as so many Right-wingers seem to suggest and want to use as a basis for an attack?
And to change the subject - what was the most difficult part of flight training for you?
A: Hi Dave,
rather not get into a political discussion as this is not the proper forum for that. However, as for the most difficult part of flying, I think it was balancing work/family/flying. with the hours I needed to go up, studying the material and the planes not starting, as I look back, I think that took a lot out of me.
thanx
Monem
Answered 11/24/08 11:25:58 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Raihan from Washington
Q: Hi Monem! I was just wondering .. since the Muslim Community in Bellingham is rather small as you mentioned, how easy is it for you and other Muslims there to get halal groceries? Are there stores there that cater to that? Is there a butcher that supplies halal meat? Where do you get your provisions from?
A: Most Muslims here go to Seattle to get there halal meat.
Answered 10/13/08 19:29:31 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Evan from Seattle
Q: Monem- According to the Qur'an, what is Islamic view toward Jews and the nation of Israel?
A: According to the Qur'an, Jews are considered "People of the Book"; as opposed to polytheists and/or pagans. Along with Christians, they have a special place in that they are a monotheistic religion to which God sent a Messenger(s). God says that over time the religions became corrupted with mistranslations, misinterpretations, an sometimes, intentional abrogation. Also, God says in the Qur'an that there are some of the "people of the book" that will be admitted into Paradise for their love for God and sincere belief.
As for the nation of Israel, since the Qur'an is much older than the current State of Israel, nothing is mentioned about it.
Answered 08/13/08 10:44:37 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Patti from Blaine, WA
Q: I see so many times where Muslim's are called Arabs. I thought if an individual was Arab that meant they were from Saudi Arabia. Am I right or wrong? Also do you watch the Canadian television show Little Mosque on the Prairie? Just wondering if it is funny or offensive in your opinion.
A: Traditionally, anyone who could speak Arabic was known as an Arab. In modern times, the "Arab World" stretches from Morrocco in the West, to Iraq in the East and Yemen in the South. Quite a large area, but by no means does it make up the majority of Muslims in the world. For example the most populous Muslim country is Indonesia, and hundreds of millions of Muslims live in South Asia, China, SE Asia, etc. Also, Turkey and Iran are Muslim, but not considered Arab either.
On the Canadian sitcom, "Little Mosque on the Praire", it is not offensive to me at all, I think it is funny and great. Now if only I could watch it regularly and not on youtube!!!! :)
Answered 08/13/08 10:39:05 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Interfaith girl from Bellingham WA
Q: What opportunities exist for those of differing faiths to reach out and connect with the Muslim community in Whatcom County? Are you interested in starting or has anyone started any social or issues groups where we can get to know who we are both through and beyond our religious identities?
A: To be honest, no much or even not enough. we are a very small community in Bellingham, and a bit bigger in Whatcom County as a whole. Always open to suggestions, but with a small community, everyone is busy doing something just to keep us together as a community!!!! :)
Answered 08/01/08 11:29:30 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Hamster from Bellingham
Q: How do I respond to my dear co-worker and friend, a conservative Christian, who, in spite of our different beliefs I still view as person who is genuinely trying to live his faith... awhile back he saw a presentation in his church from either an ex-cleric or ex-government mucky-muck from Iran or some Arab country (sorry, my memory is not what it once was!). Anyway, unfortunately, this speaker is informing church congregations all around the U.S. that indeed, Islam preaches hatred and violence against the Infidel. My friend knows a Muslim family who lives in Whatcom County. When asked if this family was hateful, he said no, "They're not hateful because they aren't that religious." When I brought up all the violence done in the name of Christianity, like the Crusades and the Inquisition, he said, "They weren't real Christians." I was really at a loss for words, but worry that this view is spreading among some Christian churches, but thankfully, not all. How would you respond to this person? You can either respond on your blog or privately, whatever is best.
A: Unfortunately, these days, it is very easy to get popular by talking bad about Islam. Seems like if you can talk bad about it, then you are an expert. There are a few points that I would mention to counter this, but keep in mind that I do not know his specific arguments so can't obviously address him directly.
1) All Muslim organizations have denounced the violence that has been done in the name of Islam. one can visit www.isna.net for more information
2) If one reads the quran, God is speaking about how he will forgive sins, so believe in Him; it doesn't make sense that God would be talking about mercy and then tell people to be violent
3) similarly, there is a concept of "eye for an eye" in Islamic law, but that verse in the quran is directly followed up with one that says that if you forgive, it is better for you in the sight of God; again, we forgiveness if God wants us to hate
4) historically, Muslims have lived with others who were "infidels"; even to this day, India is a minority Muslim country; it has in the past been ruled by Muslims; couldn't they have easily wiped out the population of "infidels" or forced them to convert?
I hope this helps answer your question. if not, do not hesitate to respond back, because I might be misunderstanding your question.
Monem
Answered 07/21/08 18:27:14 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Brandon from No Longer B'ham
Q: A question that I have been curious about since seeing a Muslim Cleric from Canada speak on this subject on T.V. is this: do you think that it is time for Islam to go through a reformation, much the same way Christianity did several hundred years ago? The reasons the Cleric gave were many and poignant. Alot has happenned in the last thousand years. There are issues that, while pertinent then, really no longer apply. What are your thoughts?
A: Hi Brandon,
I don't think that Islam needs to go through a reformation, but rather Muslims just need to begin practicing Islam. Remember that the history of Islam and not similar to Christianity. For example, at the height of the Christianity, Europe was living in the Dark Ages filled with ignorance, wars, etc. At the height of Islam, the Muslim world was at its peak in terms of scientific discovery, knowledge, arts, etc.
That said, I think what does need to happen is that we go back to the original history of Islam where scholars answered questions of their time by debate and discourse and respected each other's conclusions, but not necessarily agreed with them. Nowadays, unfortunately, people spew off a legal opinion which is hundreds of years old and if you don't agree, they call you a disbeliever!!!!
Answered 07/14/08 19:05:51 by Monem Salam
Submitted by Darlene from Bellingham, WA
Q: Do you have an email address that I can forward to a friend?
Thanks,
Darlene
A: Hi Darlene,
in regards to what?
thanx
Monem
Answered 07/14/08 19:00:26 by Monem Salam